In your power react less, regain control, raise others
"In Your Power offers a guide to show up as powerful in a world that makes many people feel powerless. Offering a toolkit for resiliency in the modern world of stresses we face, Melnick utilizes a mental framework, called Power Portals, to provide readers with a "sorting" function tha...
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Formato: | Libro electrónico |
Idioma: | Inglés |
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Hoboken, New Jersey :
John Wiley & Sons, Inc
[2023]
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Ver en Biblioteca Universitat Ramon Llull: | https://discovery.url.edu/permalink/34CSUC_URL/1im36ta/alma991009703306006719 |
Tabla de Contenidos:
- Cover
- Title Page
- Copyright Page
- Contents
- Introduction
- Part I Be the Thermostat (Not the Thermometer)
- Chapter 1 From Out of Your Power to In Your Power
- What Happens When You Are Kicked Out of Your Power?
- Three Power Derailers: Overcome Your Hardwiring to Be in Your Power
- Turning a Vicious Cycle into a Virtuous One
- Chapter 2 From Chaos to Control
- The 50% Rule
- How to Begin Accessing the Portals
- Part II Portals to Be In Your Power
- Chapter 3 Precision: From Instinctive to Intentional
- The Three Questions for Creating New Outcomes When Out of Your Power
- Who Do You Need to Show Up as in Order to Move the Situation in That Direction?
- Bring Your Horizon Point into Your Every Day
- Chapter 4 Perspective: From Casualty to Creator
- You Can't Grow Past Your Beliefs, But You Can Change Them
- Your Ability Is Infinite if You Keep Cultivating It
- Get a 3D Perspective on the Situation
- You Want to See the Hologram of Any Scenario You're Struggling With
- Chapter 5 Physiology: From Hijack to Natural High
- Return to a State of Calm
- "Feeling Is Healing"
- Fill Yourself Back Up!
- Chapter 6 Purpose: From Your Small Game to Your Big Game
- Playing Your Small Game versus Your Big Game
- Finding Your Purpose
- Shift Your Focus to Those You're Serving
- Be the Champion and Steward of Your Beneficiaries
- Chapter 7 Psyche: From React to Reclaim
- The Stories You Tell Determine the Quality of Your Life
- You Have the Power to Choose a New Story
- Why You Chose Your Story
- Change Your Lead Story into a Life Story
- You Can Own the Narrative of Your Life
- Assign Your Story to a Part of You
- You Can Move beyond Your Storyline
- Chapter 8 Proficiency: From Invisible to Invaluable
- Be Confident-and Objective-about Your Proficiency.
- Part III Portals to Use Your Interpersonal Power for the Good of All
- Chapter 9 Persuasion: From Unheard to Undeniable
- Persuasion Pitfall #1: Asking, Not Aligning
- Appeal to Both Their Business and Personal Interests
- Persuasion Pitfall #2: From Single Conversation to Stakeholder Campaign
- Persuasion Pitfall #3: Not Clearly Providing a Framework
- Persuasion Pitfall #4 Focusing on Past Achievements to the Exclusion of Future Ones
- Persuasion Pitfall #5: Not Making It Easy for Your Decision Maker to Implement Your Idea
- Chapter 10 Partnership: From My Problem to Our Solution
- You Want to Transfer the Ownership of the Problem
- Make Them an Active Part of the Process
- See Yourself as the Steward of the Whole Scenario
- Infuse the Situation with Light
- Chapter 11 Protection: From Silent Suffering to Sovereignty
- Boundaries to Protect Your Time, Attention, and Energy
- Proactive Boundaries to Prevent Overwhelm at Work
- Set Boundaries to Carve Out Time you Need
- Use Active Questions to Take Back Control over Intrusive People
- Reactive Boundaries
- Protection beyond Boundaries: Putting Up Barriers
- The Special Problem of Narcissists
- The Special Case of Harassment
- Chapter 12 Powerful Truth: From Angry to Authentic
- Reclaim the Definition of Words so They Don't Hurt You
- Chapter 13 People: From Alone to Amplified
- We Are Wired to Co-Regulate
- People Hold Up a Mirror for Us
- The Power of the Posse
- People Can Give You Feedback to See Your Blind Spots
- Seek People Who Can Catalyze Your Power
- Seek Out Mentors, Sponsors, and Allies
- Chapter 14 Position: From Overlooking Your Power to Owning It
- Bring Consciousness into the Use of Power in Your Position
- Focus on Your Why
- Be Successful at Using Your Power
- Use the Leverage You Already Have but May Be Overlooking
- Leverage Your Power.
- Create the Weather on Your Team
- Growing Power in Others Grows Your Power
- Become a Sponsor
- Engage in Allyship
- Leverage the Power of Platform
- Part IV Create a Ripple Effect
- Chapter 15 Power Is a Lifestyle
- Acknowledgments
- Index
- EULA.